Cultivating Present Moment Awareness: Your Journey to Mindful Living

My approach to meditation is deeply rooted in the belief that we can enrich our understanding of mind and psychology by incorporating a variety of contemporary approaches and influences on meditation. This holistic approach allows us to cultivate a greater sense of contentment, joy, pleasure, and connectedness in our daily lives. By embracing various meditation techniques and principles, we can tap into a deep well of strength and establish a regular and consistent meditation practise that serves as a source of inner strength and calm.

I want you to start by imagining a really happy memory from your life— perhaps a holiday with family or friends, or a great experience you had with a partner, child, or parent. Think of one of those truly happy, transcendent moments that keep popping up in our lives, moments that we savour and are grateful for when they happen. Maybe it was a sunny day at the beach, with the waves lapping gently against the shore and a cool breeze caressing your skin. Or maybe it was a special occasion, like a birthday party full of laughter and joy, surrounded by the people you love. These moments are like treasures that we carry with us, brightening our days and reminding us of the beauty and happiness that life has to offer.

As you recall this memory, I want you to become aware of all the sensory details, all the things you perceive in this scene as you let it reappear in your mind’s eye. Try to imagine the colours, the sounds and the scents that surround you at that moment. Feel the temperature on your skin and the feelings that were stirred up inside you. Let the scene play out like a vivid film in your mind’s eye and explore every detail and feeling associated with it. Now pay attention to where your thoughts are. Is it running into the future, into a time after this event? Is it going back to something that happened before that time? Or does it really only seem to focus on that one big, happy, transcendent moment?

It’s probably focussing primarily on that one moment, because that’s what these big, happy moments do for us. They create a sense of ‘present moment awareness’, a sense that we really are in this moment. The past does exist and the future will inevitably come, but neither seems that important in this moment. This is something I call ‘time-orientation’. Our mind tends to spend a lot of time in places that are not the present. It often dwells on the past, going over memories, stories, limiting beliefs and moments of shame or embarrassment. This leads to a mindset of rumination where we replay past events. In contrast, when we experience these profound moments, it is as if time stands still and we can only focus on the beauty and joy of that particular moment. It is as if the rest of the world fades away and we are completely immersed in the blissful present. This heightened awareness and connection to the present moment can bring about a deep appreciation for the simple yet extraordinary things that happen in our daily lives and remind us to cherish every moment.

I won’t deny that the past has happened or that bad things have happened. But maybe our minds spend a little too much time there. Memories, both good and bad, can have a powerful impact on our thoughts, shaping our present and influencing our future. It is important to acknowledge the past, learn from it and then gently release it from our thoughts. Similarly, our minds can also focus excessively on the future, on things that have not yet happened. This is where anxiety arises as we visualise things that could or might happen. The unknown can be scary, but finding a balance between recognising the future and living in the present can help to lighten the burden of worry and anxiety.

Our orientation to time plays an important role in shaping our thoughts and emotions. It constantly pulls us into the past, where we brood, or into the future, where we are afraid. It is a common human experience to dwell on past mistakes or worry about the future, but these tendencies can often overshadow the richness of the present moment. When we constantly project our thoughts backwards or forwards, we miss out on the opportunities and experiences that are available in the present. By consciously focussing our attention on the here and now, we have the opportunity to fully engage with our surroundings, connect with others and enjoy the beauty of the present moment.

One of the most important tools we use to create a stronger connection to the awareness of the present moment is the so- called meditation object. A meditation object is anything that we use to focus and centre our mind — a tool that we draw upon. This can be a sound, a body sensation, a mantra or a visualisation. In this module, we will focus on the breath. When we focus on the breath, we pay attention to the rising and falling of the chest, the sensation of air flowing in and out through the nostrils, and the rhythm of inhaling and exhaling. This practise can help us to develop a sense of calm and presence as we focus our attention on the natural and constant rhythm of our breathing. By refining our ability to stay present with the breath, we develop a valuable skill that we can use in various aspects of our lives to promote mindfulness and emotional regulation.

The breath is often the best and simplest meditation object. When we focus on the sensation of the breath, we start where we are most physically aware of it. The first step is to notice how the breath moves through the nostrils, how the chest expands or how the belly rises and falls. This will serve as a starting point for the mind to return to when it begins to wander. As we continue to practise, we may find that our awareness of the breath deepens and we can observe the subtle changes in its rhythm and temperature. We may also become more sensitive to the connection between our breath and our emotional state, noticing how it can become shallow and hurried in times of stress and slow and deep in moments of calm. By regularly meditating on the breath, we can cultivate a greater sense of presence and peace and gradually train our mind to become more focussed and aware both on and off the cushion.

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