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Embracing Presence: A Path to Mindfulness and Fulfilment

Posted on by Allan Johnson in compassion, mindfulness, Observations

Have you ever had the feeling that life is passing you by? As if you were constantly stuck in the past or worried about the future? What if the real key to happiness and fulfilment lies in something as simple as connecting with the present moment and being fully present? Many spiritual and mindfulness practises emphasise the importance of living in the now, as this can help to reduce stress and anxiety, increase appreciation for the simple pleasures of life and improve overall wellbeing. By cultivating a sense of mindfulness and focussing our attention on the present, we can experience a greater sense of peace and contentment, allowing us to make the most of each moment as it unfolds.

When we talk about presence, we mean the opposite of being in the future or in the past. Much of our waking life is dominated by our worries about the past and our fears about the future. What gets lost in between is the present moment. Dwelling on the past often leads to regret, while worrying about the future often leads to anxiety. It is important to realise that living in the present does not mean ignoring the lessons of the past or neglecting the future. Rather, it is about finding a balance between learning from the experiences of the past and carefully preparing for what is to come while fully enjoying the beauty and possibilities of the present. This mindset can lead to a deep sense of gratitude, mindfulness and a deeper connection with the world around us.

The present moment is the only time we have control over. We have no control over the past and we cannot fully control the future — although we can influence it through our actions in the present. Therefore, the present is the most valuable and important time to focus on. When we are fully in the present, we can make the most of every experience, connect more deeply with others and appreciate the beauty that surrounds us. When we focus on the present, we can also better manage our thoughts and emotions, leading to a greater sense of inner peace and contentment. When we embrace the present moment, we can make conscious choices and take intentional action to shape our future in a way that aligns with our values and goals.

Writer and Zen practitioner Natalie Goldberg sums up the essence of presence beautifully with her quote: ‘Every moment is enormous, and it’s all we have.’ We rarely think about the fact that all that really exists is this one moment of awareness. This quote from Goldberg captures the true essence of presence and why it is so important. Presence allows us to appreciate each moment as it unfolds and to fully engage with the richness of our experience and the interconnectedness of all things. When we embrace presence, we can also enjoy the beauty of simple things and feel gratitude for the ordinary, developing a deeper sense of fulfilment and satisfaction in our daily lives. When we embrace the practise of presence, we become attuned to our surroundings and develop a greater sense of empathy and understanding for others. It also provides us with the clarity to make conscious choices and respond thoughtfully to the ebbs and flows of life, rather than being consumed by worries about the future or regrets about the past. In essence, presence is not just a state of being, but a gateway to a more mindful, purposeful and enriched existence.

Imagine spending time with a close friend or loved one, knowing that this may be the last time you will see them face-to-face. How would your behaviour change in this conversation? If you knew this was your last conversation, your attention to every detail and nuance in the moment would increase. This increased attention is a new form of presence where every detail and nuance is noticed, appreciated and valued. You may find that you enjoy the way their eyes sparkle when they smile or the tone of their laughter. Every gesture and expression becomes precious and imprinted in your memory with unrivalled clarity. The words exchanged carry a weight that transcends the ordinary and takes on an almost tangible meaning. In this state of heightened presence, time seems to slow down, allowing you to savour and appreciate every moment. The shared experiences, the dreams and the unspoken realisations are distilled into a precious essence and form a tapestry of memories that will endure beyond the boundaries of time.

A very good friend of mine, who later became an important artist, told me something that has stayed with me since we were teenagers. She said, ‘whenever something really special happens in your life, stop for a moment and recognise it.’ This simple practise of taking a moment and saying, ‘this is a really special moment, a really special time,’ is something I still do regularly. Anchoring the uniqueness of the present moment in my consciousness is a powerful practise. Reflecting on the individual details of the experience, the emotions felt and the impact of the moment has allowed me to cultivate gratitude and deep appreciation for the richness of life. It is fascinating how these small pauses can add depth and meaning to our daily lives and fill it with a sense of wonder and joy. Each time I engage in this practise, I find myself embracing the beauty of the present moment and understanding the significance of these unique experiences that form the tapestry of my life.

When we talk about the present, past and future in English, we engage in a complex interplay of linguistic constructions that profoundly affect our understanding of time. Unlike some other languages, English does not have a true future tense. Instead, we rely on auxiliary verbs and other linguistic devices to convey actions or events that have not yet occurred. This approach not only reflects the flexibility and adaptability of the English language, but also emphasises the intricate relationship between language and temporal perception. Think of phrases like ‘I will go to the store later today’ or ‘I am meeting my friends for dinner tonight.’ Through these expressions, we manifest a cognitive shift towards prospective thinking by subtly directing our awareness towards future events. This linguistic nuance embedded in our everyday communication plays an important role in the way we conceptualise time. It often causes us to anticipate and plan for the future rather than fully engaging with the present moment.

Poets have long been fascinated by the role of language in shaping our understanding of time. They seek to capture the fleeting moments and evoke deep emotions with their words. One such tradition that has been particularly successful in this endeavour is the haiku, a poetic form that beautifully captures the essence of the present moment. Originating in Japan, haiku are revered for their concise and evocative style, often depicting scenes from nature or daily life in just a few lines. This form of poetry emphasises simplicity, brevity and mindfulness and encourages both the poet and the reader to appreciate the subtle beauty of the here and now. Influenced by Zen Buddhism, the haiku form emphasises that being fully aware and present in each moment is not only an artistic endeavour, but also a deeply spiritual practise. Zen philosophy teaches that the present moment is the only reality we truly have, and it exhorts us to let go of distractions, judgements and worries and instead embrace the fullness of each passing moment. By encouraging us to look inward, observe without judgement and immerse ourselves fully in the present, haiku poetry offers a powerful reflection of Zen philosophy and challenges us to cultivate a heightened awareness of the world around us.

How often do we assume that we will only be happy if something happens in the future? Phrases like ‘I wish I had…’ or ‘I will be happy if…’ postpone the possibility of happiness and joy to an indefinite point in the future. Instead of focusing only on the future, we should transform our hopes and dreams for tomorrow into something like ‘I am grateful for’ and ‘I am content now’. By shifting our mindset to gratitude and contentment, we can find happiness in the present moment instead of always waiting for a future event. By returning to the present in each moment, we are not shirking responsibility for the future, but fully embracing it and enriching our lives in every moment, especially the moment we actually have control over. Gratitude and contentment in the present allows us to live a more fulfilling life, appreciating the beauty of each moment and finding joy in everyday experiences.

By remembering that the past is gone and the future is to come, we can focus on the present moment and our awareness of it. This practise allows us to cultivate a sense of mindfulness and appreciate the beauty of each moment. When we embrace the present moment, we can savour the small pleasures of life, be it the warmth of the sun on our skin, the laughter of a loved one or the stillness of nature. By being fully present in our lives, we can also deepen our connections with others, build meaningful relationships and enrich the tapestry of our existence. Let’s continue our journey to live more in the present and appreciate the richness this brings to our lives and the lives of those around us.

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The Interplay of Thoughts, Emotions, and Behaviors: Unlocking the Path to Emotional Intelligence

Posted on by Allan Johnson in habits, intention, meditation

Understanding the dynamic interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours is crucial for gaining insights into human cognition and behaviour. This interconnectedness forms the basis of our experiences, shaping how we perceive and interact with the world around us. Our thoughts influence our emotions, which in turn affect our behaviour, creating a complex web of reactions to internal and external stimuli.

Emotions play a crucial role in our daily lives and influence our behaviour and interactions with the world around us. They are complex, multifaceted experiences that encompass a wide range of feelings, from joy and love to anger and fear. These physiological sensations often occur instinctively, triggered by external stimuli or internal thoughts, and can manifest in a variety of ways, such as increased heart rate, changes in body temperature or muscle tension. Our somatic awareness is an essential part of experiencing emotions, as we can become very aware of these physical changes when we are overwhelmed by strong feelings. Once triggered, emotions can profoundly affect our thoughts and cognitive processes, causing us to interpret and react to situations in certain ways. For example, feeling sad can lead us to think about underlying causes, while fear can lead to thoughts that focus on potential threats or dangers. Understanding the complex relationship between emotions and cognitive processes is essential to understanding the complexity of human experience and behaviour.

Behaviours emerge from these thoughts. Sometimes these behaviours are automatic and beyond our control. In most cases, however, we have control over our actions. It is important to recognise that we have different behavioural options at any given moment, but our mind tends to quickly jump from an emotion to a thought to a behaviour. This quick transition is driven by our mind’s perception of what is best for us, but this is not always correct. By becoming more aware of this process, we can learn to pause and consider our reactions more consciously. By acknowledging the power we have to choose our behaviour, we can exert more influence over our interactions and the outcomes we experience. This heightened awareness allows us to navigate challenging situations with more grace and control, developing a greater sense of emotional intelligence and well-being.

Developing an awareness of this cycle is essential to our emotional and mental well-being. The sequence of emotions leading to thoughts, which in turn lead to behaviours, forms a loop in which each element can influence the others. By becoming aware of this process, we can gain greater insight into our own thought patterns and emotional responses. Through practises such as meditation, we can develop the ability to break this cycle, leading to more positive, beneficial and healthy behaviours. Meditation helps us to recognise when our automatic mind is taking over and allows us to pause and decide how we want to respond rather than react impulsively. This focussed awareness is a central theme in many guided meditation exercises, enabling individuals to cultivate a sense of inner peace and emotional resilience.

Our mind often wanders off into either the past or the future. If it focuses on the past, this can lead to rumination —the replaying of old, limiting stories and identities. If it looks to the future, it can trigger anxiety by playing out scenarios that may never materialise. By practicing meditation, we cultivate a greater awareness of the present, as if we were shining a bright light in an attic to see all the little details of our inner world. This practise helps us to build a different relationship with our inner world and better align our outer behaviour with our true self.

Overcoming challenges is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, an enduring journey that shapes our character and resilience. Meditation and self-reflection are powerful tools on this journey, giving us the opportunity to delve deep into our inner thoughts and feelings. However, it is important to recognise that these practises are not quick fixes that bring instant results, but are ongoing processes that we continually nurture and develop. As we navigate through the complexities of life, we endeavour to create harmony and consistency between our inner aspirations and the reality of our outer world. Often our minds may conjure up various excuses and resistance to change, but it is in these moments that our commitment to growth and self-improvement is revealed.

Our ego often resists this practise, preferring convenience and ease to the introspection and effort required for meditation. For example, if you decide to get up early to meditate, the voice of the ego may tempt you to stay in bed instead. This voice is looking for novelty and convenience, remnants of our evolutionary past when it was vital to conserve energy. It is important to recognise that this resistance is a natural part of the human experience, rooted in the instinct to avoid discomfort and seek instant gratification. However, through mindfulness and self-awareness, we can learn to observe these impulses without being controlled by them. By acknowledging the role of the ego in our behaviour and choices, we can begin to develop a healthier relationship with our thoughts and actions.

We no longer live as hunter-gatherers. Today we can consciously recognise when the old patterns of our ancient mind emerge and make different choices. The rational, conscious part of our mind understands the importance of meditation and urges us to continue despite resistance. When we take the time to reflect on our thoughts and feelings, we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. This self-knowledge enables us to make healthier choices and face life’s challenges with more clarity and purpose. Through mindfulness and self-reflection, we can develop a deeper connection to our inner self and cultivate a greater sense of inner peace and fulfilment.

The further we progress on our journey of personal growth and self-discovery, the more important it becomes to find ways to stay inspired. Simple acts such as lighting a candle or burning incense can create a calm and uplifting atmosphere that allows us to reconnect with our inner selves. These small, intentional acts can reignite our enthusiasm and remind our ego of the importance and deeper meaning of the practise. It is important to remember that showing up regularly and enduring resistance are integral parts of the journey to a more aligned and aware self. By recognising and working on obstacles and challenges, we can cultivate our resilience and strengthen our commitment to personal development.

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Mindfulness and Meditation: Embracing Thoughts Without Being Controlled by Them

Posted on by Allan Johnson in habits, intention, meditation

Through meditation we can develop a different relationship with our thoughts, a more mindful approach that allows us to observe them without being controlled by them. By meditating regularly, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and self-knowledge and gain the ability to recognise our thoughts and feelings without being overwhelmed by them. This process enables us to face life’s challenges with greater clarity and purpose, improving our overall wellbeing and mental resilience. As we continue to deepen our meditation practise, we may find that our capacity for empathy, compassion and understanding expands, leading to more harmonious relationships with others and a deep sense of connection with the world around us.

With any meditation practise, there is a natural evolution of motivation. This initial enthusiasm can change over time, which is natural in any meditation practise. In the beginning, everything feels exciting and positive, but you may experience phases where interest, concentration or motivation wane. Overcoming these phases can lead to renewed interest. It is important that you recognise that fluctuations in motivation are part of the journey and that they provide opportunities for self-reflection and growth. Accepting the ebbs and flows of motivation can deepen your understanding of the practise and lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling meditation experience. In addition, the support of a community or teacher during times of waning motivation can provide valuable insight and encouragement, helping individuals to manage and overcome these inevitable periods of fluctuation.

And I’m certainly not perfect; my own meditation practise has its ups and downs. There are times when I feel unhappy, stressed or anxious when I skip a few days. It’s not about shaming ourselves, but gently returning to our practise without judgement. And then when I look into my body and realise something is wrong, I know it’s probably because I haven’t meditated for several days, and that’s okay. It’s important to acknowledge the fluctuations in our practise and treat ourselves with kindness during these times. By accepting imperfection, we can grow and learn from our experiences, leading to a deeper sense of compassion and understanding for ourselves and others. As we master the fluctuations of our meditation journey, we develop resilience and a greater capacity for self-awareness, leading to a more meaningful and fulfilling practise.

It’s just a matter of noticing when you have drifted away from the practise for a while, perhaps due to a busy schedule or unexpected life demands, and allowing yourself to gently and non-judgementally return to the meditation practise. It’s natural for our attention to wander, but the key is to recognise this without berating ourselves. Instead, we can use these moments as an opportunity to practise the art of returning to the present moment and reconnect with the essence of meditation. With each return, we strengthen our ability to be present and we cultivate a kind and compassionate relationship with our own mind.

In meditation, the process of noticing our thoughts plays a crucial role in achieving a state of mindfulness. By recognising our thoughts without judging them, we create space for introspection and self-awareness. As we apply this practise, we gradually develop the ability to intentionally direct our thoughts and gently nudge them to flow like a calm river, free from the confines of overthinking. Just as a gentle breeze carries the clouds across the sky, we learn to let our thoughts meander through our consciousness and observe them with a sense of detachment and calm. Through this mindful observation, we cultivate a deep sense of inner peace and clarity that allows us to experience the present moment with a heightened sense of awareness and serenity.

Through our meditation practise, we start to develop a deeper understanding of the nature of our thoughts and feelings. We learn to observe the fluctuating patterns of our mind without getting caught up in them. In this way, we can cultivate a sense of detachment from our thoughts and create space for a more balanced and peaceful state of being. As we continue to practise, we become more adept at simply noticing our thoughts without judging them or holding on to them, and eventually allowing them to emerge and disappear without causing us distress. This process of non-attachment allows us to experience a greater sense of clarity and inner freedom, enabling us to face life’s challenges with a calmer and more resilient attitude.

And just as our thoughts constantly flow in a stream of consciousness, so our emotions constantly flow in a stream of consciousness. This constant flow of thoughts and emotions shapes our perceptions, reactions and ultimately our reality. It is fascinating to observe how our inner world mirrors the ever-changing outer world, creating a dynamic interplay between our thoughts, emotions and the environment around us. As we move through life, this stream of consciousness reminds us that we are connected to the world. It influences our experiences and the way we interact with others.

We are constantly bombarded with stimuli, events and interactions with other people, creating a complex web of feelings, thoughts and emotions. This intricate web can often lead to behaviours that are not conducive to our wellbeing or that of those around us. However, through the practise of meditation, we gain the ability to observe how our feelings and thoughts automatically translate into behaviours. With consistent practise, we gradually develop the ability to intercept and break the negative cycle that can manifest when harmful thoughts and emotions lead to negative or limiting behaviours. This increased awareness allows for a greater sense of control and the ability to respond to stimuli in a more attentive and constructive way.

Just as people lift weights at the gym to get stronger or run on the treadmill to develop more stamina and speed, through meditation we train our mind’s ability to notice when a thought or emotion immediately and unconsciously turns into an outward behaviour, especially if that outward behaviour is not what we want to do. Through consistent practise, meditation allows us to cultivate a sense of inner calm and awareness so that we are able to respond to situations with greater clarity and purpose. It helps us to be more mindful of our thoughts and feelings by creating space between stimulus and response. This increased mindfulness can lead to healthier and more conscious responses and promote a sense of control over our actions and behaviours. In addition, meditation can also promote emotional resilience as we learn to manage challenging emotions with a sense of calmness and balance.

One of the reasons why the breath is so often used as an object of meditation is that the breath is a constant in our lives that is always available to us, whether we realise it or not. Its inherent neutrality allows it to be used as a focal point without distracting or biassing us. The rhythmic nature of the breath, its gentle rise and fall, provides a calming and grounding sensation and makes it an ideal anchor for our attention during meditation practise. The more we tune into our breath, the more we may also discover that its patterns and subtleties provide insights into our emotional and mental state, opening up a deeper level of awareness and connection with ourselves.

We notice when the mind begins to wander and then return to the present without judgement. This observation of the mind wandering and gently bringing it back to the present moment is a fundamental aspect of mindfulness meditation. It allows us to cultivate awareness and acceptance of our thoughts and feelings without getting caught up in self-criticism. The idea of non-judgement is very important here, as it creates a space for self-compassion and kindness towards ourselves. In meditation practise, every moment is an opportunity to start again, to let go of distractions and refocus our attention on the present. It is a constant process of returning, re-centring and embracing the unfolding of each moment with an open heart and mind.

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Overcoming Negativity Bias and Resistance: Cultivating a Sustainable Meditation Practice

Posted on by Allan Johnson in habits, meditation, mindfulness, Observations

Imagine you receive an email from your boss asking you to come in or give them a call. You may feel worried or anxious and think, “What is this about? Is it something bad?” These thoughts can trigger feelings of fear, dread and anxiety, which can lead to outward behaviours such as increased heart rate, sweating or blushing. Imagine the thoughts and feelings that arise and the physical sensations in your body — discomfort or uncertainty. You may also consciously react with anger because you are expecting bad news.

Notice what happened in this thought experiment: you did not know what the boss wanted, but our minds generated automatic reactions. The lack of clarity from the boss created a feeling of uncertainty and triggered a cascade of thoughts and emotions. These emotions in turn influenced our behaviour and led to a mixture of reactions that we struggled to control. As we observed this automatic flow from thoughts to emotions to behaviours, we realised that some of our actions were out of our control, while others could be consciously controlled. This realisation clarified the intricate connection between our thoughts, feelings and actions and shed light on the way our reactions are shaped by internal and external stimuli.

Humans have a negative bias that has developed over tens of thousands of years of evolution, causing us to see the more negative option as true. This bias is a defence mechanism that prepares us for the worst-case scenario. It is deeply rooted in our subconscious and guides our thoughts and actions in various areas of life. This bias likely arose from the need to be constantly alert to potential dangers in order to ensure our survival in a world full of uncertainties, and is now reinforced by the dissemination of negative information in the media and society, shaping our perceptions and reactions to the world around us. However, if we are aware of these biases, we can consciously challenge them and balance them with positive perspectives, fostering a more realistic and resilient mindset.

In the 21st century, however, we no longer need to be guided by these automatic evolutionary reactions. A regular meditation practise helps us to detach from these deeply programmed reactions by noticing when our mind is on autopilot. When we develop mindfulness, we can observe our thoughts and emotions without automatically reacting to them. This allows us to make conscious choices and respond to situations in a more aware and considered way. Over time, the practise of meditation can bring about significant changes in our neural pathways, leading to better emotional regulation and a greater sense of inner peace. In addition, mindfulness can help us become more aware of our automatic reactions and habitual patterns. In this way, we can free ourselves from unconscious reactions and live with more awareness and authenticity.

So when we focus on centring ourselves in the present, we become more receptive to the sensations in our body, the sounds around us and the subtle changes in our environment. Through this heightened awareness, we are able to notice when our thoughts wander, gently acknowledge them and bring our attention back to the present moment and the rhythm of our breath. Each cycle of this practise serves as an exercise to strengthen our mental resilience, much like an extra repetition on a strength machine or an extra mile on the treadmill. The tools of integrative meditation act as catalysts for change, gradually reshaping our neural pathways and redefining the way our minds work. By becoming more aware of our thoughts and emotions, we begin to decode their patterns and gain insight into the inner workings of our mind, leading to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our thought processes.

Meditation is a transformative journey that goes beyond the designated time slot. It becomes an integral part of our daily routine and influences our thoughts, actions and overall well-being. Much like the careful tending of a garden, our meditation practise requires patience, dedication and nurturing. If we continue to invest time and energy into this practise, we will witness its gradual development, much like the growth of a garden over time. Just as a gardener tends to the various aspects of his garden, we nurture our meditation practise, encourage its development and reap the rewards of our persistent care and attention.

When we start something new, we go through a motivational cycle. In the beginning, we are excited and enthusiastic, full of hope and ambition, eager to master new challenges and seize new opportunities. Over time, however, it is natural for motivation to wane as the novelty wears off and we look for something new to reignite our passion and interest. This is a common phenomenon that many people face, and it often serves as a reminder to look for new sources of inspiration and fulfilment in our pursuits.

Perhaps you are noticing a resistance to your meditation practise today. Are you bored? Are you frustrated because you have to keep focussing on the object of meditation? As you deepen your meditation practise, it is normal to encounter these challenges. It can be beneficial to recognise these moments of resistance as opportunities for growth. You could experiment with different meditation techniques or incorporate a change of scenery to revitalise your practise. Remember that every moment of resistance is an opportunity to strengthen your mindfulness muscles and deepen your meditation experience. Keep exploring and stay open to developing your practise.

Simply recognise these feelings without judging them. Recognise that each emotion has a purpose and a message to convey. Take the time to sit with these feelings and allow yourself to fully experience them without feeling the need to react immediately. This mindful approach can lead to a better understanding of your emotions and give you a sense of inner peace.

These resistances often reflect how we react to challenges in our daily lives. When we are faced with adversity, our inner strength and bravery are tested and through these challenges we discover the depths of our resilience. Whether it’s a personal struggle, a professional setback or a social issue, our ability to face and overcome obstacles shapes our character and determines our path. Any resistance we encounter serves as a mirror that reflects our reactions, our coping mechanisms and our ability to grow. These moments of resistance are not only obstacles, but also opportunities for self-knowledge and empowerment.

When you begin a meditation practise, simply be aware of these obstacles. Pay attention when they arise and understand that they are natural. The first step is to notice them when they arise. It is important to face these obstacles with patience and understanding. By recognising their existence, we create the space for self-reflection and growth. As you dive deeper into your meditation practise, you may find that these obstacles reveal valuable insights about your thought patterns and emotional responses. Embracing these insights can lead to profound changes that allow you to develop a more positive and compassionate attitude. Remember that this is a journey of self-discovery and that every obstacle is an opportunity for personal development and inner resilience.

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Cultivating Present Moment Awareness: Your Journey to Mindful Living

Posted on by Allan Johnson in meditation

My approach to meditation is deeply rooted in the belief that we can enrich our understanding of mind and psychology by incorporating a variety of contemporary approaches and influences on meditation. This holistic approach allows us to cultivate a greater sense of contentment, joy, pleasure, and connectedness in our daily lives. By embracing various meditation techniques and principles, we can tap into a deep well of strength and establish a regular and consistent meditation practise that serves as a source of inner strength and calm.

I want you to start by imagining a really happy memory from your life— perhaps a holiday with family or friends, or a great experience you had with a partner, child, or parent. Think of one of those truly happy, transcendent moments that keep popping up in our lives, moments that we savour and are grateful for when they happen. Maybe it was a sunny day at the beach, with the waves lapping gently against the shore and a cool breeze caressing your skin. Or maybe it was a special occasion, like a birthday party full of laughter and joy, surrounded by the people you love. These moments are like treasures that we carry with us, brightening our days and reminding us of the beauty and happiness that life has to offer.

As you recall this memory, I want you to become aware of all the sensory details, all the things you perceive in this scene as you let it reappear in your mind’s eye. Try to imagine the colours, the sounds and the scents that surround you at that moment. Feel the temperature on your skin and the feelings that were stirred up inside you. Let the scene play out like a vivid film in your mind’s eye and explore every detail and feeling associated with it. Now pay attention to where your thoughts are. Is it running into the future, into a time after this event? Is it going back to something that happened before that time? Or does it really only seem to focus on that one big, happy, transcendent moment?

It’s probably focussing primarily on that one moment, because that’s what these big, happy moments do for us. They create a sense of ‘present moment awareness’, a sense that we really are in this moment. The past does exist and the future will inevitably come, but neither seems that important in this moment. This is something I call ‘time-orientation’. Our mind tends to spend a lot of time in places that are not the present. It often dwells on the past, going over memories, stories, limiting beliefs and moments of shame or embarrassment. This leads to a mindset of rumination where we replay past events. In contrast, when we experience these profound moments, it is as if time stands still and we can only focus on the beauty and joy of that particular moment. It is as if the rest of the world fades away and we are completely immersed in the blissful present. This heightened awareness and connection to the present moment can bring about a deep appreciation for the simple yet extraordinary things that happen in our daily lives and remind us to cherish every moment.

I won’t deny that the past has happened or that bad things have happened. But maybe our minds spend a little too much time there. Memories, both good and bad, can have a powerful impact on our thoughts, shaping our present and influencing our future. It is important to acknowledge the past, learn from it and then gently release it from our thoughts. Similarly, our minds can also focus excessively on the future, on things that have not yet happened. This is where anxiety arises as we visualise things that could or might happen. The unknown can be scary, but finding a balance between recognising the future and living in the present can help to lighten the burden of worry and anxiety.

Our orientation to time plays an important role in shaping our thoughts and emotions. It constantly pulls us into the past, where we brood, or into the future, where we are afraid. It is a common human experience to dwell on past mistakes or worry about the future, but these tendencies can often overshadow the richness of the present moment. When we constantly project our thoughts backwards or forwards, we miss out on the opportunities and experiences that are available in the present. By consciously focussing our attention on the here and now, we have the opportunity to fully engage with our surroundings, connect with others and enjoy the beauty of the present moment.

One of the most important tools we use to create a stronger connection to the awareness of the present moment is the so- called meditation object. A meditation object is anything that we use to focus and centre our mind — a tool that we draw upon. This can be a sound, a body sensation, a mantra or a visualisation. In this module, we will focus on the breath. When we focus on the breath, we pay attention to the rising and falling of the chest, the sensation of air flowing in and out through the nostrils, and the rhythm of inhaling and exhaling. This practise can help us to develop a sense of calm and presence as we focus our attention on the natural and constant rhythm of our breathing. By refining our ability to stay present with the breath, we develop a valuable skill that we can use in various aspects of our lives to promote mindfulness and emotional regulation.

The breath is often the best and simplest meditation object. When we focus on the sensation of the breath, we start where we are most physically aware of it. The first step is to notice how the breath moves through the nostrils, how the chest expands or how the belly rises and falls. This will serve as a starting point for the mind to return to when it begins to wander. As we continue to practise, we may find that our awareness of the breath deepens and we can observe the subtle changes in its rhythm and temperature. We may also become more sensitive to the connection between our breath and our emotional state, noticing how it can become shallow and hurried in times of stress and slow and deep in moments of calm. By regularly meditating on the breath, we can cultivate a greater sense of presence and peace and gradually train our mind to become more focussed and aware both on and off the cushion.

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