habits – Allan Johnson, PhD

The Way We Live Matters More Than The Way We Think

Posted on February 2, 2026 by Allan Johnson in habits, Observations

It’s easy to forget that philosophy was never meant to be a spectator sport.

Long before it became something we studied, it was something people did. Philosophy began as a way of arranging a day, training attention, shaping character, and orienting oneself toward what mattered in life. It didn’t live in texts, but in habits: how one woke, walked, ate, spoke, listened, and rested.

In other words, philosophy was practical.

This has been on my mind a lot recently, perhaps unsurprisingly. I’ve just come to the end of my sabbatical and I’m now taking on responsibility for running the MA in English Literature and the MA in Creative Writing at the University of Surrey. This transition made me acutely aware of how much of our thinking is shaped not by what we claim to believe, but by what we repeatedly do.

One of the great misunderstandings of modern intellectual life is the assumption that clarity comes first, and practice follows: if only we had the right theory, the right worldview, the right explanation, then our lives would fall into place.

But lived experience tends to run the other way around.

As Pierre Hadot points out in Philosophy as a Way of Life, ancient philosophy was grounded in spiritual exercises, that is, concrete practices designed to transform perception and conduct. Stoicism wasn’t a set of ideas about fate or reason; it was a disciplined training of attention. Epicureanism wasn’t a theory of pleasure, but a daily practice of simplicity, friendship, and fear reduction. Even Plato’s dialogues, for all their abstraction, were designed to do something to the reader: to unsettle, provoke, and reorient.

Closer to our own time, thinkers as varied as Simone Weil, Iris Murdoch, and Michel de Certeau have reminded us that attention, habit, and repetition shape the moral and imaginative texture of a life long before explicit reflection enters the scene. We do not first decide what matters and then act accordingly; rather, what we attend to, rehearse, and ritualise slowly teaches us what matters.

This is why everyday rituals are philosophical, whether we acknowledge them as such or not.

By “rituals,” I don’t mean anything grand or mystical—though they can be. I mean the small, repeated actions that quietly structure our inner lives: how we begin the morning, how we transition into work, how we respond to resistance, how we close a day. These acts rarely feel important, but they are formative.

A life without intentional ritual isn’t neutral; it is simply shaped by default rituals of the world outside: algorithms, inboxes, urgency, comparison, and distraction.

During my sabbatical, this became unavoidably clear. Writing a book is less an act of inspiration than one of sustained fidelity: returning to the page when enthusiasm fades, when doubts arise, when the work resists being done. What carried me through wasn’t motivation, but a set of simple, repeatable practices and routines that made thinking possible at all. A system.

This is where much contemporary advice culture goes astray. We are encouraged to optimise outputs while leaving the deeper structure of our lives untouched. But philosophy—real philosophy—asks a more demanding question: What kind of person is this way of living making me into?

This is also why I’m increasingly wary of purely instrumental approaches to creativity. Writing, thinking, and teaching are not just tasks to be managed; they are forms of life. How we organise our time, relate to resistance, and hold ourselves in periods of uncertainty is not secondary to the work—it is the work.

Much of my recent teaching, coaching, and writing has been circling this insight from different angles: that sustainable creativity requires a different relationship to time, effort, and selfhood than the one most of us have inherited.

This integrative dimension is central to my current work, including the practices I’ll be sharing in upcoming sessions. Whether through meditation, reflective co-working, or rethinking how we organise creative labour, the aim is the same: to help people cultivate forms of attention that make meaningful work—and a more humane life—possible.

If this resonates, you might be interested in the following upcoming offerings:

Integrative Meditation
2 February | 7.30–8.30 PM GMT | £4
A guided session focused on attention, integration, and gentle inner alignment.
Register here:
https://www.meetup.com/the-art-of-creative-practice/events/312077761/

Creative Flow Co-Working Session: Reframing Resistance
9 February | 10 AM–12 PM GMT | FREE
A shared, reflective working space for engaging resistance as information rather than failure.
Register here:
https://www.meetup.com/the-art-of-creative-practice/events/312151261/

Beyond Time Management: A More Natural Way to Organise Creative Work
24 February | 7.30–9.00 PM GMT | £12
An exploration of rhythms, seasons, and structures for sustained creative practice.
Register here:
https://www.meetup.com/the-art-of-creative-practice/events/313062163/

Perhaps the most important thing philosophy can do for us now is remind us that a life is not shaped primarily by what we profess, but by what we practice. Everyday rituals—chosen with care—become a quiet form of resistance against fragmentation, haste, and superficiality.

And in a culture saturated with noise and abstraction, this return to lived, embodied wisdom may be one of the most radical gestures still available to us.

Do You Need a Teacher to Learn How to Meditate?

Posted on April 26, 2025 by Allan Johnson in habits, meditation, mindfulness

Do you need a teacher to learn how to meditate, or can you do it entirely yourself? The answer is a complex one.

When we begin thinking about meditation, we recognise that we’re not discussing some sort of endpoint or final destination. Meditation doesn’t have an ultimate goal we are striving toward. Instead, what we encounter through the development of a sustained meditation practice is the ability to connect more fully and regularly with our own inner teacher—our intuitive, present awareness.

Now, while we can reach that stage by ourselves by cultivating communication with our inner teacher, having a real-world teacher, whether through courses, face-to-face sessions, or even apps, can significantly accelerate the process. I’ll come back to that point in a moment, but first, let’s talk a bit more about the nature of the inner teacher that we cultivate through meditation.

Our inner teacher isn’t an external guru. It’s our own capacity to listen really deeply to ourselves. Meditation builds our self-awareness, clarity, and intuition. And here’s where a fascinating paradox emerges: even though meditation is self-directed, solitary, silent, and quiet, without structure, we can easily drift or plateau.

That’s where real-world teachers come in: helping prevent us from drifting or stagnating, and ultimately speeding up a process that we could, left to our own devices, still achieve just much more slowly.

When I talk about a “real-world teacher,” I mean many different things. It could be face-to-face meditation teachers at retreats, courses, group sessions at yoga studios, gyms, community centres, or church halls. It could also be free online courses, guided meditations, or structured programs you find online.

Ultimately, what we’re aiming for is self-discipline in our busy, tech-saturated lives: the discipline to maintain a daily meditation practice. That’s what’s key. Thousands of years ago, meditation practitioners didn’t have apps, YouTube videos, or timers to track how many minutes they’d meditated. They relied on real, face-to-face teachers in their communities.

Today, in a tech-driven society, I think what we’re moving toward is a hybrid approach—a blend of self-guided daily practice and teacher-led guidance.

However, if we only meditate alone, or only use the same app or the same recording every day, we won’t continue to deepen and develop more nuanced phases of our meditation.

That’s where live teachers come in:

Attending weekly or monthly meditation classes.
Working with a mindfulness-based coach online.
Going to your local yoga studio.
Participating in regular retreats.

Developing an in-person student–teacher relationship is what will truly accelerate our meditation journey. In the same way that just sitting alone at home won’t lead to rapid growth, attending only the occasional class or retreat isn’t enough either.

A hybrid approach—a daily, self-directed practice supported by regular real-world teaching—is what provides the richest environment for growth. This approach helps us better understand and navigate the many unique, subjective experiences that arise in meditation.

So in answer to the question:
Do we need a teacher to meditate?
Yes, we do.
But the nature of a “teacher” in the 21st century looks very different from what it did thousands of years ago, and will often be supplemented by digital tools and must always be supplement by our own personal meditation practice.

Rather than resisting digital tools and apps, we can use them to support our daily practice.
And rather than relying only on weekly classes or quarterly retreats, we can integrate those as vital touchstones for learning, sharing, and connecting with others. Let’s use everything we have to develop our own unique meditation journeys—because that’s what they truly are: individual, unfolding, and lifelong.

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Cultivating Beauty: Nourishment for the Soul Beyond the Superficial

Posted on August 14, 2024August 7, 2024 by Allan Johnson in habits, mindfulness, Observations, wellbeing

Beauty is all around us, just waiting to be noticed. Sometimes it is obvious, like a colourful sunset or a beautiful bouquet of flowers, but sometimes it is more subtle, like the gentle curve of a shell on the shore, the delicate pattern of the frost on a window pane or the soft glow of candlelight on a quiet evening. There is an infinite variety of beauty in the world, from the grandeur of majestic mountains to the delicate details of a spider’s web. Appreciating these simple moments of beauty can bring a sense of calm and wonder to our lives, reminding us to slow down and savour the extraordinary in the ordinary.

Learning to train our eyes and hearts to recognise the beauty in our everyday lives can be a transformative exercise. By consciously looking for moments of wonder in the mundane, we develop a deeper appreciation for the world around us. Whether it’s the gentle curve of a flower petal, the soothing rhythm of the rain or the laughter of a loved one, there are countless opportunities to find joy and inspiration in the everyday. When we embrace this mindset, we can fill our days with gratitude and mindfulness, which ultimately enriches our life experiences.

The English novelist D.H. Lawrence was a firm believer in the restorative power of beauty. For Lawrence, beauty was not just a superficial quality, but a vital source of nourishment for the soul, providing emotional and spiritual nourishment that went beyond the basic needs met by physical nourishment. His view that ‘the human soul needs actual beauty even more than it needs bread’ encapsulates the idea that beauty is an essential part of the human experience that penetrates deep into our consciousness and awakens a sense of wonder and connection. In our daily lives, this philosophy challenges us to be receptive to the unexpected manifestations of beauty so that we can find solace and inspiration in the most unlikely places and moments.

The understanding of beauty varies over time and between cultures. What is considered beautiful in one culture may not be the same in another. Historical and cultural influences can shape perceptions of beauty, as can be seen in the way different eras have celebrated certain body types or facial features. It’s fascinating to observe the different perspectives on beauty and see how they reflect the rich tapestry of human experience around the world.

In Japan, for example, the concept of wabi-sabi celebrates the beauty of imperfection and impermanence. This philosophy not only appreciates the natural cycle of growth and decay, but also emphasises the elegance that lies in simplicity and asymmetry. Wabi-Sabi encourages the individual to find harmony in the imperfections and impermanence of existence and fosters a deep sense of gratitude and acceptance. The aesthetic of wabi-sabi permeates various aspects of Japanese culture and influences art, architecture and design. It emphasises the value of unpretentious, unadorned beauty in a world that is often preoccupied with perfection and permanence.

In Western history, beauty has often been associated with symmetry and consistency, reflecting the influence of classical Greek and Roman ideals on the aesthetics of art and architecture. The emphasis on proportion and balance in classical works continues to shape our understanding of beauty today, inspiring the design of iconic buildings and timeless works of art. This enduring legacy is a testament to the enduring appeal of symmetry and consistency in the Western cultural perception of beauty.

From the intricately woven patterns of traditional textiles in Asia to the vibrant colours and rhythmic movements of African dances, beauty manifests itself in countless ways. The more we learn about the diversity of beauty in a global and historical context, the more sensitive and nuanced our understanding of beauty in our own lives becomes. This expanded awareness allows us to appreciate the multifaceted nature of beauty and embrace the richness of cultural differences, fostering a deeper sense of connection and understanding within our global community.

In my view, beauty is a form of simplicity. This simplicity can be found in natural landscapes, where the harmonious arrangement of elements evokes a sense of peace and awe. It can also manifest itself in human creativity, such as in minimalist architecture, where clean lines and uncluttered spaces evoke a sense of elegance and sophistication. Beauty as simplicity is a guiding principle in many aspects of life, encouraging us to appreciate the purity and grace found in the unassuming and uncomplicated.

By removing the superfluous and unnecessary elements from our surroundings, we can bring out the underlying elegance and harmony in the world around us. This concept of simplification and refinement was developed in the influential Bauhaus movement, originating in Europe in the early twentieth century. The aim of the movement was to emphasise simplicity and functionality in design, eliminate superfluous ornamentation and create clear, geometric forms. The basic principle that ‘less can indeed be more’ shows how minimalism offers us a profound opportunity to appreciate the intrinsic beauty of our surroundings and encourages us to recognise the value of the essential and unadorned. This philosophy goes beyond design, shaping our perception of the world and influencing various aspects of contemporary culture and lifestyle.

Clutter can get in the way of beauty, overwhelming the senses and distracting from the simple elegance of a space. By embracing minimalism and discernment, we can make the beauty in our lives more visible and impactful. When we get rid of unnecessary things and focus on what is truly important, we create space for the real beauty to emerge, allowing us to appreciate the details and craftsmanship of the things we want to keep. This conscious design of our surroundings not only enhances the aesthetic appeal, but also promotes a sense of calm and serenity. This creates a mindful and peaceful environment in which we can fully engage with the beauty that surrounds us.

Spiritual teacher Marianne Williamson has beautifully described the essence of beauty as ‘spiritual radiance’, illustrating the idea that true beauty comes from within. This inner light shines through when a person is deeply connected to their authentic self and in tune with their purpose. Williamson’s insight invites us to look at beauty beyond externals. She emphasises the transformative power of inner radiance that emanates from a person who is in harmony with their true nature and life purpose.

Building on this concept, it is important to recognise that when we cultivate qualities such as compassion, kindness and empathy, we further enhance the depth of our inner radiance, making it stronger and more impactful in our interactions with the world. In addition, the practise of self-care and self-awareness helps to nurture this inner light so that it permeates every aspect of our being and radiates outward to touch the lives of those around us. The beauty of spiritual radiance goes far beyond physical attributes. It invites us to dive into the depths of our inner being and embrace the transformative power of authenticity and purpose.

Beauty is indeed abundant and can be found in the smallest details, from the delicate petals of a flower in bloom to the mesmerising patterns in nature’s creations. If we take the time to stop and observe the world around us, we can discover the breathtaking symphony of colours, shapes and textures that make up the essence of beauty. When we open our hearts and minds to the various forms of beauty, be it in art, in nature or in the actions of others, we enrich our lives and connect with the profound allure of the world. With an attentive eye and an open mind, we open the door to a deeper understanding and appreciation of the profound beauty that surrounds us.

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The Interplay of Thoughts, Emotions, and Behaviors: Unlocking the Path to Emotional Intelligence

Posted on August 3, 2024August 1, 2024 by Allan Johnson in habits, intention, meditation

Understanding the dynamic interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours is crucial for gaining insights into human cognition and behaviour. This interconnectedness forms the basis of our experiences, shaping how we perceive and interact with the world around us. Our thoughts influence our emotions, which in turn affect our behaviour, creating a complex web of reactions to internal and external stimuli.

Emotions play a crucial role in our daily lives and influence our behaviour and interactions with the world around us. They are complex, multifaceted experiences that encompass a wide range of feelings, from joy and love to anger and fear. These physiological sensations often occur instinctively, triggered by external stimuli or internal thoughts, and can manifest in a variety of ways, such as increased heart rate, changes in body temperature or muscle tension. Our somatic awareness is an essential part of experiencing emotions, as we can become very aware of these physical changes when we are overwhelmed by strong feelings. Once triggered, emotions can profoundly affect our thoughts and cognitive processes, causing us to interpret and react to situations in certain ways. For example, feeling sad can lead us to think about underlying causes, while fear can lead to thoughts that focus on potential threats or dangers. Understanding the complex relationship between emotions and cognitive processes is essential to understanding the complexity of human experience and behaviour.

Behaviours emerge from these thoughts. Sometimes these behaviours are automatic and beyond our control. In most cases, however, we have control over our actions. It is important to recognise that we have different behavioural options at any given moment, but our mind tends to quickly jump from an emotion to a thought to a behaviour. This quick transition is driven by our mind’s perception of what is best for us, but this is not always correct. By becoming more aware of this process, we can learn to pause and consider our reactions more consciously. By acknowledging the power we have to choose our behaviour, we can exert more influence over our interactions and the outcomes we experience. This heightened awareness allows us to navigate challenging situations with more grace and control, developing a greater sense of emotional intelligence and well-being.

Developing an awareness of this cycle is essential to our emotional and mental well-being. The sequence of emotions leading to thoughts, which in turn lead to behaviours, forms a loop in which each element can influence the others. By becoming aware of this process, we can gain greater insight into our own thought patterns and emotional responses. Through practises such as meditation, we can develop the ability to break this cycle, leading to more positive, beneficial and healthy behaviours. Meditation helps us to recognise when our automatic mind is taking over and allows us to pause and decide how we want to respond rather than react impulsively. This focussed awareness is a central theme in many guided meditation exercises, enabling individuals to cultivate a sense of inner peace and emotional resilience.

Our mind often wanders off into either the past or the future. If it focuses on the past, this can lead to rumination —the replaying of old, limiting stories and identities. If it looks to the future, it can trigger anxiety by playing out scenarios that may never materialise. By practicing meditation, we cultivate a greater awareness of the present, as if we were shining a bright light in an attic to see all the little details of our inner world. This practise helps us to build a different relationship with our inner world and better align our outer behaviour with our true self.

Overcoming challenges is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, an enduring journey that shapes our character and resilience. Meditation and self-reflection are powerful tools on this journey, giving us the opportunity to delve deep into our inner thoughts and feelings. However, it is important to recognise that these practises are not quick fixes that bring instant results, but are ongoing processes that we continually nurture and develop. As we navigate through the complexities of life, we endeavour to create harmony and consistency between our inner aspirations and the reality of our outer world. Often our minds may conjure up various excuses and resistance to change, but it is in these moments that our commitment to growth and self-improvement is revealed.

Our ego often resists this practise, preferring convenience and ease to the introspection and effort required for meditation. For example, if you decide to get up early to meditate, the voice of the ego may tempt you to stay in bed instead. This voice is looking for novelty and convenience, remnants of our evolutionary past when it was vital to conserve energy. It is important to recognise that this resistance is a natural part of the human experience, rooted in the instinct to avoid discomfort and seek instant gratification. However, through mindfulness and self-awareness, we can learn to observe these impulses without being controlled by them. By acknowledging the role of the ego in our behaviour and choices, we can begin to develop a healthier relationship with our thoughts and actions.

We no longer live as hunter-gatherers. Today we can consciously recognise when the old patterns of our ancient mind emerge and make different choices. The rational, conscious part of our mind understands the importance of meditation and urges us to continue despite resistance. When we take the time to reflect on our thoughts and feelings, we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. This self-knowledge enables us to make healthier choices and face life’s challenges with more clarity and purpose. Through mindfulness and self-reflection, we can develop a deeper connection to our inner self and cultivate a greater sense of inner peace and fulfilment.

The further we progress on our journey of personal growth and self-discovery, the more important it becomes to find ways to stay inspired. Simple acts such as lighting a candle or burning incense can create a calm and uplifting atmosphere that allows us to reconnect with our inner selves. These small, intentional acts can reignite our enthusiasm and remind our ego of the importance and deeper meaning of the practise. It is important to remember that showing up regularly and enduring resistance are integral parts of the journey to a more aligned and aware self. By recognising and working on obstacles and challenges, we can cultivate our resilience and strengthen our commitment to personal development.

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Mindfulness and Meditation: Embracing Thoughts Without Being Controlled by Them

Posted on July 20, 2024July 20, 2024 by Allan Johnson in habits, intention, meditation

Through meditation we can develop a different relationship with our thoughts, a more mindful approach that allows us to observe them without being controlled by them. By meditating regularly, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace and self-knowledge and gain the ability to recognise our thoughts and feelings without being overwhelmed by them. This process enables us to face life’s challenges with greater clarity and purpose, improving our overall wellbeing and mental resilience. As we continue to deepen our meditation practise, we may find that our capacity for empathy, compassion and understanding expands, leading to more harmonious relationships with others and a deep sense of connection with the world around us.

With any meditation practise, there is a natural evolution of motivation. This initial enthusiasm can change over time, which is natural in any meditation practise. In the beginning, everything feels exciting and positive, but you may experience phases where interest, concentration or motivation wane. Overcoming these phases can lead to renewed interest. It is important that you recognise that fluctuations in motivation are part of the journey and that they provide opportunities for self-reflection and growth. Accepting the ebbs and flows of motivation can deepen your understanding of the practise and lead to a more sustainable and fulfilling meditation experience. In addition, the support of a community or teacher during times of waning motivation can provide valuable insight and encouragement, helping individuals to manage and overcome these inevitable periods of fluctuation.

And I’m certainly not perfect; my own meditation practise has its ups and downs. There are times when I feel unhappy, stressed or anxious when I skip a few days. It’s not about shaming ourselves, but gently returning to our practise without judgement. And then when I look into my body and realise something is wrong, I know it’s probably because I haven’t meditated for several days, and that’s okay. It’s important to acknowledge the fluctuations in our practise and treat ourselves with kindness during these times. By accepting imperfection, we can grow and learn from our experiences, leading to a deeper sense of compassion and understanding for ourselves and others. As we master the fluctuations of our meditation journey, we develop resilience and a greater capacity for self-awareness, leading to a more meaningful and fulfilling practise.

It’s just a matter of noticing when you have drifted away from the practise for a while, perhaps due to a busy schedule or unexpected life demands, and allowing yourself to gently and non-judgementally return to the meditation practise. It’s natural for our attention to wander, but the key is to recognise this without berating ourselves. Instead, we can use these moments as an opportunity to practise the art of returning to the present moment and reconnect with the essence of meditation. With each return, we strengthen our ability to be present and we cultivate a kind and compassionate relationship with our own mind.

In meditation, the process of noticing our thoughts plays a crucial role in achieving a state of mindfulness. By recognising our thoughts without judging them, we create space for introspection and self-awareness. As we apply this practise, we gradually develop the ability to intentionally direct our thoughts and gently nudge them to flow like a calm river, free from the confines of overthinking. Just as a gentle breeze carries the clouds across the sky, we learn to let our thoughts meander through our consciousness and observe them with a sense of detachment and calm. Through this mindful observation, we cultivate a deep sense of inner peace and clarity that allows us to experience the present moment with a heightened sense of awareness and serenity.

Through our meditation practise, we start to develop a deeper understanding of the nature of our thoughts and feelings. We learn to observe the fluctuating patterns of our mind without getting caught up in them. In this way, we can cultivate a sense of detachment from our thoughts and create space for a more balanced and peaceful state of being. As we continue to practise, we become more adept at simply noticing our thoughts without judging them or holding on to them, and eventually allowing them to emerge and disappear without causing us distress. This process of non-attachment allows us to experience a greater sense of clarity and inner freedom, enabling us to face life’s challenges with a calmer and more resilient attitude.

And just as our thoughts constantly flow in a stream of consciousness, so our emotions constantly flow in a stream of consciousness. This constant flow of thoughts and emotions shapes our perceptions, reactions and ultimately our reality. It is fascinating to observe how our inner world mirrors the ever-changing outer world, creating a dynamic interplay between our thoughts, emotions and the environment around us. As we move through life, this stream of consciousness reminds us that we are connected to the world. It influences our experiences and the way we interact with others.

We are constantly bombarded with stimuli, events and interactions with other people, creating a complex web of feelings, thoughts and emotions. This intricate web can often lead to behaviours that are not conducive to our wellbeing or that of those around us. However, through the practise of meditation, we gain the ability to observe how our feelings and thoughts automatically translate into behaviours. With consistent practise, we gradually develop the ability to intercept and break the negative cycle that can manifest when harmful thoughts and emotions lead to negative or limiting behaviours. This increased awareness allows for a greater sense of control and the ability to respond to stimuli in a more attentive and constructive way.

Just as people lift weights at the gym to get stronger or run on the treadmill to develop more stamina and speed, through meditation we train our mind’s ability to notice when a thought or emotion immediately and unconsciously turns into an outward behaviour, especially if that outward behaviour is not what we want to do. Through consistent practise, meditation allows us to cultivate a sense of inner calm and awareness so that we are able to respond to situations with greater clarity and purpose. It helps us to be more mindful of our thoughts and feelings by creating space between stimulus and response. This increased mindfulness can lead to healthier and more conscious responses and promote a sense of control over our actions and behaviours. In addition, meditation can also promote emotional resilience as we learn to manage challenging emotions with a sense of calmness and balance.

One of the reasons why the breath is so often used as an object of meditation is that the breath is a constant in our lives that is always available to us, whether we realise it or not. Its inherent neutrality allows it to be used as a focal point without distracting or biassing us. The rhythmic nature of the breath, its gentle rise and fall, provides a calming and grounding sensation and makes it an ideal anchor for our attention during meditation practise. The more we tune into our breath, the more we may also discover that its patterns and subtleties provide insights into our emotional and mental state, opening up a deeper level of awareness and connection with ourselves.

We notice when the mind begins to wander and then return to the present without judgement. This observation of the mind wandering and gently bringing it back to the present moment is a fundamental aspect of mindfulness meditation. It allows us to cultivate awareness and acceptance of our thoughts and feelings without getting caught up in self-criticism. The idea of non-judgement is very important here, as it creates a space for self-compassion and kindness towards ourselves. In meditation practise, every moment is an opportunity to start again, to let go of distractions and refocus our attention on the present. It is a constant process of returning, re-centring and embracing the unfolding of each moment with an open heart and mind.

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